Celebrating the Heart of Our Homes: Homeschool Educators and Mothers

 

Today, I had the privilege of speaking to two remarkable homeschool educators, one from Hong Kong and one from the USA. They shared with me a sentiment that resonates with many in their roles as mothers and homeschool educators – a feeling of insignificance. I countered their thoughts, reflecting back with unwavering conviction, "No, you are the most important person in your family and society as you dedicate your entire life to supporting your family and teaching your children to become responsible citizens and loving individuals."

 

Homeschool educators and mothers, your relentless dedication often goes unnoticed by your friends, neighbors, or even your spouse due to a societal belief that earning money is the most valuable contribution to a family. This perception often leads to an unfortunate undervaluation of the immense work done by homeschool educators and mothers. In Hong Kong culture, you may be labeled as 師奶 (Si Naai), a term laden with negative connotations. Similarly, in Western cultures, the term "housewife" often carries a stigma, implying that the work done at home is less valuable than paid employment outside the home.

 

As a woman, I deeply understand the immense sacrifice and love that women pour into their families and children. A woman who devotes all her time and effort to nurturing and loving her children deserves the honorable title of "educator" rather than the negative labels of Si Naai or housewife. As homeschool educators, you contribute even more by shouldering the responsibilities of both a mother and a school teacher. Your efforts and dedication should be celebrated by society and your families. This is why, in my first doctorate-level research paper, I chose to honor all homeschool mothers with the title "Homeschool Educators." Friends, you are the educators who help raise responsible, knowledgeable students, making our world a better place to live. 

 

The dilemma faced by housewives in both Hong Kong and Western countries must be reevaluated. We should value the unpaid yet invaluable work done within the home by mothers and homeschool educators. Despite their significant contributions, mothers and homeschool educators often feel undervalued and unappreciated. It's crucial to recognize and celebrate the vital role that mothers and homeschool educators play in shaping the future of our society. By acknowledging their efforts and giving them the respect they deserve, we can foster a more inclusive and appreciative environment for all. 

 

Remember, dear homeschool educators and mothers, you are the heart of your homes, the pillars of our future, and the unsung heroes of our society. Your dedication and love do not go unnoticed, and the impact you have is immeasurable.

 

Written by Dr. Lai Mei Kei Vivien